Gay Therapists Who Are Results-Oriented

I entered therapy having already decided to leave my relationship…and now you have done what I thought not possible—brought me back to him.
— Unsolicited client feedback

Our expert therapists offer individual gay therapy and gay couples or marriage counseling. Whether single or in a relationship, our gay psychologists help you:

  • Feel good about yourself so you can have a more satisfying life

  • Have deeper and more meaningful relationships

As a gay person, you may struggle with your self-worth. You might also suffer from anxiety or depression. You may have trouble sleeping, feel isolated socially, or exhausted from self-criticism. You’re tired of struggling. You want to work with a therapist to help you overcome your pain and angst.


Or, perhaps you are seeking gay relationship counseling…

If you’re single, you may wonder if you’ll ever have a relationship that makes you happy. Things have gone wrong in your relationships so many times. You’ve had enough pain. You want something better.

If you are looking for gay couples counseling we know that you’re struggling in your relationship. It may be because your partner hooked-up with someone, conflicting sexual desires, fights that never get resolved, or you can’t agree on rules for an open relationship

You want to be closer to your partner and feel the love between you more strongly.

Whatever your problems are, as gay counselor specialists, we’d love to help…

Individual Counseling for Gay Men

Gay Therapy for Individuals

Heal past wounds and create a life with more love and happiness.

Gay Couples Counseling

Gay Couples or Marriage Counseling

Open your hearts to each other and create a deeper, more fulfilling relationship.

Online Gay Coaching

Online Coaching for Individuals and Couples

Feel better about yourself and create a loving relationship through individual or couples coaching.


Why Gay Men Choose Us

1.  Let’s Face it—no one understands gay men better than other gay men.

Therapy with gay men requires experts like us who understand you. We “get” you, your culture, and your troubles. Not only are we experts at providing gay therapy, we are all gay ourselves.

2.  Our gay psychologists are highly experienced, have top notch counseling skills, high intelligence, and compassionate hearts. 

Our therapists, on average, have 10 years of experience and many have over 20 years. We have devoted our careers to working with the gay community. It is our passion. Our gay therapists help you feel comfortable talking about uncomfortable topics—including sex and sexuality,  a key reason gay men and gay couples enter therapy. More experienced therapists means that therapy moves more quickly, in our experience.

3.  We focus on results. 

Our gay counselors don’t just sit and listen (although we do that very well). We work towards helping you make the changes in yourself, your life, and your relationships so that life can be fulfilling and meaningful. We are trained in evidence-based methods of therapy that are known to work. We don’t just want to help you solve your problems—we want you to have an awesome life! 

4.  We are the largest gay therapy center in the world. 

Our 30 gay therapists work with people from across the globe. We have therapy offices in San Francisco, Los Angeles, New York City, and Washington, D.C. so far… And, we offer coaching services online via Skype to the rest of the world. We have clients from as far away as Australia and Malaysia!

5.  We personally match you.

Getting the right match is very important to the success of therapy. Our founder, Adam D. Blum, MFT, will talk to you by phone to learn more about your needs and will personally make the match to one of our gay therapists. And because we have offices in so many neighborhoods,  you probably won’t have to travel far for therapy.  And it's very likely that we can see you at a time that is convenient for you.


Our mission is to help gay men love themselves and each other.


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At the Gay Therapy Center we have experts in: 

Addiction and Meth
Bipolar Disorder
Eating Disorders
Panic Disorder
Sexual Compulsivity
Sexual Abuse

Well Trained Gay Therapists 

All of our therapists are fully licensed psychologists and psychotherapists and have studied at some of the most esteemed universities and training programs in the United States including Harvard University, UCLA, NYU, and Northwestern University.  

We have gay therapists that specialize in:

Multicultural Issues
Open Relationships and Polyamory
Spanish Speaking
Transgender Reassignment Surgery

Many of our gay therapists have advanced training in:

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)
Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy
Psychodynamic Therapy
Gottman Method Couples Therapy
Sex Therapy