Do You Choose Mean Gay Guys?

Do You Choose Mean Gay Guys?

We often are drawn to unkind people because our parents weren’t so kind to us.  In other words, they feel familiar.

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What Gay Men Should Expect in a Relationship

What Gay Men Should Expect in a Relationship

Some gay men put up with a lot in their relationships.

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Gay Men, Texting, and 93% of Communication

Gay Men, Texting, and 93% of Communication

93% of communication is through your facial expression and tone of voice.

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Gay Men Being Needy

Gay Men Being Needy

If a man appears dependent or needy, then he’s a fag. It’s considered gross.

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The information on this blog is provided for general informational purposes only and no psychotherapist-client relationship is formed nor should any such relationship be implied. The suggestions offered in this blog are just one perspective of many approaches to dealing with problems and should not be your only source when making life decisions. This website is not intended to replace professional mental health treatment.

Why Am I Attracted to Younger Gay Men?

Why Am I Attracted to Younger Gay Men?

As a gay man you have already spent years judging your sexuality. That didn't make you any happier.

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Why This Gay Therapist Says: “Stop Worrying About Being Selfish”

Why This Gay Therapist Says: “Stop Worrying About Being Selfish”

“I don’t want to be selfish.”

When I hear this statement in my psychotherapy practice, I get suspicious.

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Gay Guys: Do You Feel Alone?

Gay Guys: Do You Feel Alone?

In therapy, gay men learn to recover from an abusive relationship with their self.

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Do You Love a Gay Narcissist?

Do You Love a Gay Narcissist?

Many of my clients fall in love with narcissists. It's pretty easy to do. Narcissists often are extremely charming, bright, and attractive.

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The information on this blog is provided for general informational purposes only and no psychotherapist-client relationship is formed nor should any such relationship be implied. The suggestions offered in this blog are just one perspective of many approaches to dealing with problems and should not be your only source when making life decisions. This website is not intended to replace professional mental health treatment.

Ending an Unhealthy LGBT Relationship

Ending an Unhealthy LGBT Relationship

Here are some actions, thoughts, and questions that can help as you try to let go and move forward.

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The information on this blog is provided for general informational purposes only and no psychotherapist-client relationship is formed nor should any such relationship be implied. The suggestions offered in this blog are just one perspective of many approaches to dealing with problems and should not be your only source when making life decisions. This website is not intended to replace professional mental health treatment.