Do You Choose Mean Gay Guys?

Do You Choose Mean Gay Guys?

We often are drawn to unkind people because our parents weren’t so kind to us.  In other words, they feel familiar.

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What Keeps Sex Exciting in Long Term LGBTQ Relationships?

What Keeps Sex Exciting in Long Term LGBTQ Relationships?

Attraction + Obstacles = Excitement

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What Gay Men Should Expect in a Relationship

What Gay Men Should Expect in a Relationship

Some gay men put up with a lot in their relationships.

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Gay Men and Affairs: How to Recover

Gay Men and Affairs: How to Recover

Affairs and infidelity are more painful than ever. Why?

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The information on this blog is provided for general informational purposes only and no psychotherapist-client relationship is formed nor should any such relationship be implied. The suggestions offered in this blog are just one perspective of many approaches to dealing with problems and should not be your only source when making life decisions. This website is not intended to replace professional mental health treatment.

How To Keep A Gay Relationship Going After the Honeymoon

How To Keep A Gay Relationship Going After the Honeymoon

According to long-range studies, the romantic obsession stage only lasts an average of about two years.

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The information on this blog is provided for general informational purposes only and no psychotherapist-client relationship is formed nor should any such relationship be implied. The suggestions offered in this blog are just one perspective of many approaches to dealing with problems and should not be your only source when making life decisions. This website is not intended to replace professional mental health treatment.

Can A Gay Relationship Survive an Affair? A Video Blog

Can A Gay Relationship Survive an Affair?  A Video Blog

Recovery from an affair is a lot of work. But it happens every day at the Gay Therapy Center. See how in this 5-minute video.

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The information on this blog is provided for general informational purposes only and no psychotherapist-client relationship is formed nor should any such relationship be implied. The suggestions offered in this blog are just one perspective of many approaches to dealing with problems and should not be your only source when making life decisions. This website is not intended to replace professional mental health treatment.

Does Your Gay Boyfriend Ignore You?

Does Your Gay Boyfriend Ignore You?

Here are the six most dangerous words to describe a gay relationship:

“We don’t talk about our relationship”.

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The information on this blog is provided for general informational purposes only and no psychotherapist-client relationship is formed nor should any such relationship be implied. The suggestions offered in this blog are just one perspective of many approaches to dealing with problems and should not be your only source when making life decisions. This website is not intended to replace professional mental health treatment.

Gay Relationship Tip: The Secret to a Good Relationship

Here's what I think is the most important thing you can do to for your relationship: take care of yourself.

If you really and truly took care of yourself you would be an amazing boyfriend.

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The information on this blog is provided for general informational purposes only and no psychotherapist-client relationship is formed nor should any such relationship be implied. The suggestions offered in this blog are just one perspective of many approaches to dealing with problems and should not be your only source when making life decisions. This website is not intended to replace professional mental health treatment.

Do You Love a Gay Narcissist?

Do You Love a Gay Narcissist?

Many of my clients fall in love with narcissists. It's pretty easy to do. Narcissists often are extremely charming, bright, and attractive.

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The information on this blog is provided for general informational purposes only and no psychotherapist-client relationship is formed nor should any such relationship be implied. The suggestions offered in this blog are just one perspective of many approaches to dealing with problems and should not be your only source when making life decisions. This website is not intended to replace professional mental health treatment.

Ending an Unhealthy LGBT Relationship

Ending an Unhealthy LGBT Relationship

Here are some actions, thoughts, and questions that can help as you try to let go and move forward.

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The information on this blog is provided for general informational purposes only and no psychotherapist-client relationship is formed nor should any such relationship be implied. The suggestions offered in this blog are just one perspective of many approaches to dealing with problems and should not be your only source when making life decisions. This website is not intended to replace professional mental health treatment.